EMDR Therapy

When difficult experiences
continue to affect the present

EMDR can help you work with distressing memories and experiences that continue to affect how you feel, think or respond in the present.

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Watercolour illustration of an eye, brain and butterfly representing EMDR therapy

WHAT THIS CAN LOOK LIKE
IN EVERYDAY LIFE

These experiences
can be harder to shift
than we’d like.

Even when the situation is over, the impact can remain. EMDR therapy can help the brain and body process what has been difficult to move on from.

It is not about forgetting. It is about reducing how strongly the past continues to affect the present.

Memories arrive unexpectedly

Images, sounds or feelings from the past can appear without warning.

Always feeling on edge

Your body can stay alert, even when there is no immediate danger.

Avoiding reminders

Situations, places or people may be avoided because they bring back difficult feelings.

Strong reactions

Feelings can seem bigger than the present situation, leaving you overwhelmed.

Still feeling it in your body

Tension, tightness or other sensations can linger long after the event itself.

These reactions can make sense in the context of what happened. EMDR can help the brain and body process what still feels unresolved.

ABOUT EMDR THERAPY

What is
EMDR therapy?

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) is a structured, evidence-based psychotherapy used to help people work with distressing experiences and memories that continue to affect the present.

During EMDR, bilateral stimulation may be used, such as guided eye movements, alternating taps or sounds, while you bring particular aspects of an experience to mind.

How it works

1

Understand

We begin by understanding what has been difficult and how it is affecting you now.

2

Prepare

We build resources and strategies so you have ways to stay grounded and in control.

3

Process

Bilateral stimulation is used while you focus on selected aspects of the experience.

4

Integrate

As processing develops, the experience may feel less intense and easier to place in the past.

5

Move forward

The aim is for what happened to feel less present, with more space for choice in everyday life.

It’s not about reliving the past. It is about helping what happened feel less immediate, so it can have less influence on the present.
Safety & agency

You remain part of the process

EMDR is collaborative. You stay aware of what is happening, and the work is paced rather than pushed. Preparation, choice and review are part of the therapy - not extras around it.

01

You remain awake and aware

EMDR is not hypnosis. You remain conscious, present and able to communicate throughout the session.

02

You can pause

You can ask to stop, slow down or take a break. We can change direction when something does not feel manageable.

03

Preparation matters

Processing does not have to begin immediately. Preparation and strengthening resources can be part of EMDR itself.

04

You do not have to tell every detail

Some context is useful, but EMDR does not always require a detailed verbal retelling of everything that happened.

05

Therapy is paced collaboratively

What we work with, when we work with it and what happens next are reviewed together throughout therapy.

You do not have to prove that you are ready by pushing through something that feels too much.
Common EMDR questions

Clear answers, without the jargon

These are some of the questions people commonly ask before beginning EMDR. Open any question to read the answer.

01How does EMDR work?

EMDR combines attention to aspects of a distressing memory with bilateral stimulation, such as guided eye movements. There are several theories about why this is helpful, and the precise mechanism is still being researched.

The aim is not to erase what happened. It is to help the experience become less distressing and better integrated with the rest of your memory and present-day life.

02What can EMDR help with?

The strongest established evidence for EMDR is for PTSD and trauma-related symptoms. EMDR is also used clinically with other difficulties where distressing experiences, memories or learned responses may be contributing, although the evidence base is not the same for every problem.

03Do I need to talk about everything that happened in detail?

Not necessarily. I need enough information to understand what you are experiencing, consider whether EMDR is appropriate and agree what we are working with, but EMDR does not always require a detailed verbal account of every part of an experience.

04Does EMDR erase a memory?

No. EMDR does not remove a memory or make you forget what happened. The aim is for the memory to become less emotionally overwhelming and to have less impact in the present.

05Will I be hypnotised or lose control?

No. EMDR is not hypnosis. You remain awake and aware, and you can speak, pause or stop at any point.

06Can EMDR feel difficult or make me feel worse for a while?

Working with distressing experiences can sometimes bring strong emotions, body sensations, memories or dreams during or between sessions. This is one reason preparation, pacing and review are important.

A difficult reaction is not something you should simply tolerate because it proves the therapy is working. Tell me about anything concerning so that we can review the pace and what you need.

07How many EMDR sessions might I need?

There is no single number that applies to everyone. NICE describes EMDR for adults with PTSD as typically being provided over 8 to 12 sessions, with more sessions where clinically indicated, for example where there have been multiple traumatic experiences.

Your history, current circumstances, preparation needs and the work we agree to focus on can all affect the length of therapy.

08Can EMDR be provided online?

Yes. EMDR can be delivered online when this is appropriate for you and the work being undertaken. We also consider privacy, internet connection, your physical environment, safety and how we will manage any difficulties if they arise during a remote session.

09Is EMDR suitable for everyone?

No therapy is right for everyone in every circumstance. We consider what is happening now, current risks, your ability to manage distress, available support and whether more preparation or a different approach would be more useful at this point.

10Can EMDR help with experiences from childhood?

Yes. Adults may use EMDR to work with distressing or traumatic experiences that happened much earlier in life, where those experiences continue to affect emotions, beliefs, body responses or relationships in the present.

11Can EMDR be used when addiction or recovery is part of the picture?

Potentially, yes. There is no universal three-month recovery rule. We consider current substance use, recovery stability, coping resources, risk and whether trauma-focused processing is appropriate now or whether preparation or other support needs to come first.

NICE specifically advises that people with PTSD should not be excluded from treatment solely because of coexisting drug or alcohol misuse.

12How will we know whether EMDR is helping?

We review progress throughout therapy. This can include whether a target memory feels less distressing, whether associated beliefs or body responses have changed, whether triggers are affecting you differently and how you are managing outside sessions.

13What if I do not feel ready to process a difficult memory?

Then processing does not have to begin immediately. Preparation is one of the phases of EMDR. We can spend time understanding what you need, strengthening resources and deciding together when - or whether - processing is the right next step.

Session fees

Clear, straightforward pricing

60 minutes
£68
90 minutes
£88

The same session fee applies whether we meet online or in person. We can discuss the most appropriate session length for the work we are doing.

A simple next step

Not sure whether EMDR is the right place to start?

A free 30-40 minute Discovery Call gives you space to tell me a little about what you are looking for, ask questions and consider whether EMDR may be an appropriate next step. There is no expectation that you book afterwards.